Does anyone know of a way to tag asks/messages through mobile/the Tumblr app? All I use anymore to get on tumblr is my phone, and my tags haven’t been updated in monthsssss bc of it.
Sounds like you needa branch out!! You probably been around guys enough to gauge whether or not you’re being weird about things. Could be since you’re new to all of this, totally normal feelings end up feeling weird and wish washy. Talk to him more and hang out w him. Get to know HIM, not this image of him you have in your head. Play it cool and don’t stress too much about it. The situation could turn out to be totally horrible or totally awesome, but everything’s a learning experience so don’t overthink it! U got this
The same thing I think of any “alt porn” site..they took the same thin, white, etc women with socially acceptable bodies that are on regular porn sites and added some piercings and weirdly colored hair. I don’t think anything is groundbreaking about it. The only difference is now men can feel somewhat better about what they’re jacking off to because the woman is “alternative” and supposedly defies beauty standards or some shit.
Also, why are full grown women being called “girls”? Weird.
what would you do if you knew you were going to die? quit school? paint until your fingers go numb? travel the world and deeply inhale every breath? hug trees and whisper sweet things into the bark? cut your hair? scream at that person who has always wound you up? listen to every song you love and dance to them naked in the rain? kiss the person you love?
well guess what, you are going to die. none of us can ever truly know exactly when, maybe tomorrow, 567 days from now, or maybe you’ll make it to age 92. but that doesn’t matter. You should be Living. it is so much easier in theory than practice, but start with the little things and work your way to true happiness.
i’m not saying don’t write that paper thats due tomorrow because you could drop dead at any time, i’m saying enjoy it. life is what you make of it, and I’m fully understanding that now.
Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.